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Imperfect Action Sells: Why Waiting to Feel Ready Is Costing You Revenue

Writer: Bridget Becker Hom
Bridget Becker Hom
Sep 25
6 min read

Part 5-the finale of the “Stop Managing Chaos” sales and closing series

You do not need to feel ready to take the next sales action.

You need to take the next sales action so you can become ready.

That is the central idea behind Bridget Hom’s book, Stuck on Ready. It applies directly to your pipeline, your follow-up process, and your revenue.

The follow-up you did not send.

The proposal you kept editing.

The sales call you delayed booking.

The price you avoided saying out loud.

These actions may look small. They are not. Each delay creates friction in your sales process. Over time, that friction becomes a quiet revenue leak.

Stop managing chaos through more waiting. Start creating momentum through intentional action.

THE “ALMOST READY” SALES TRAP

“Almost ready” sounds responsible.

You tell yourself:

  • “I need to improve the proposal first.”

  • “I should wait until I have more testimonials.”

  • “I need to clarify the offer.”

  • “I will follow up when I have something more valuable to say.”

  • “I need more confidence before I make the ask.”

  • “The timing may be better next week.”

Sometimes more preparation is necessary.

Often, it is avoidance with a professional explanation.

The sales opportunity does not stay still while you prepare. A prospect’s priorities change. A budget moves. A competitor follows up. The conversation loses energy.

Waiting feels safer because it protects you from immediate rejection. It also protects you from immediate feedback, learning, and revenue.

Readiness is not a feeling you wait for. Readiness is created by the decision to move.

That is the sales-side thesis of Stuck on Ready: take the next aligned action before you have perfect certainty.

WHAT “ALMOST READY” LOOKS LIKE IN SALES

Complete this inventory honestly. Mark every behavior you recognize.

You may be stuck on ready if you:

  • Rewrite a follow-up email five times before sending it.

  • Wait for a prospect to contact you instead of creating the next touchpoint.

  • Keep adding information to a proposal that already answers the client’s questions.

  • Avoid presenting your offer because you are worried it will sound too salesy.

  • Delay a discovery call while you perfect your questions.

  • Offer extra services before the prospect asks for them.

  • Discount before the prospect objects to the price.

  • Leave the next step vague at the end of a sales conversation.

  • Tell yourself that one more course, credential, or strategy will make selling easier.

  • Follow up only when you have a “good enough” reason.

  • Treat no response as a final rejection instead of useful information.

  • Keep building behind the scenes instead of making a clear invitation.

These behaviors do not mean you are lazy or incapable.

They mean your sales process may be absorbing fear, perfectionism, or uncertainty.

That is where Observe, Don’t Absorb becomes practical.

OBSERVE, DON’T ABSORB THE HESITATION

Notice the thought without turning it into a command.

You may think:

“This proposal is not good enough.”

Observe the thought.

Do not absorb it as truth.

Ask:

  1. What is factually incomplete?

  2. What am I assuming the prospect will think?

  3. What is the next action that creates useful information?

If the proposal includes the problem, recommended solution, scope, investment, and next step, it may be ready enough.

If the follow-up clearly reconnects the conversation and invites a decision, it may be ready enough.

If the offer is aligned with the prospect’s stated need, it may be ready enough.

Your goal is not careless action. Your goal is intentional action without unnecessary delay.

That is entrepreneurial mindset mastery in practice.

Bridget Hom standing confidently with a phone and notebook in a deep emerald or teal blazer with a white top, ready to send a sales follow-up

USE THE RULES OF ENGAGEMENT TO MOVE

When you feel the urge to delay, apply the Rules of Engagement:

PAUSE WITH A PURPOSE

Do not use a pause to disappear.

Use it to identify the actual decision.

Ask:

“What am I waiting for, and is that requirement real?”

Set a short limit. Give yourself 10 minutes to review the message, proposal, or offer. Then decide.

STEP INTO LOGIC

Separate facts from fear.

Fact: The proposal has not been sent.

Fear: The prospect will think the offer is too expensive.

Logical next step: Send the proposal and invite the prospect to discuss fit, scope, and investment.

Logic does not eliminate emotion. It prevents emotion from managing your pipeline.

SPEAK THE TRUTH

State the clear next step.

Use these scripts.

Imperfect follow-up:

Hi [Name], I wanted to reconnect about [specific goal or challenge]. Based on our conversation, I believe [offer] could help you move forward. Would it be useful to discuss the next step this week?

Delayed proposal:

Hi [Name], I’m sending the proposal we discussed. It outlines the recommended scope, investment, and intended outcome. Review it when you can, and let’s schedule 20 minutes to answer questions and decide whether it is the right fit.

Direct sales ask:

Based on what you shared, this is the next step I recommend. Would you like to move forward?

Follow-up after no response:

Hi [Name], I’m closing the loop on this conversation for now. If [specific business priority] is still on your list, reply here and we can determine the right next step.

Do not add three paragraphs to soften the ask.

Speak the truth. Then stop talking.

APPLY THE PROP METHOD™ TO A STALLED SALE

A stalled sales action is a problem you can solve.

Problems → Opportunities → Solutions

1. DEFINE THE PROBLEM

Be specific.

Do not write:

“My pipeline is a mess.”

Write:

“Three qualified prospects have not received a follow-up within seven days.”

Now you have a workable sales problem.

2. IDENTIFY THE OPPORTUNITY

Ask what this delay reveals.

You may discover an opportunity to:

  • Create a follow-up schedule.

  • Clarify who owns the next step.

  • Simplify your proposal process.

  • Improve your call-to-action.

  • Build a sales communication template.

  • Practice naming your investment with greater confidence.

The problem contains information. Use it.

3. CHOOSE THE SOLUTION

Select one action that can happen today.

For example:

  • Send the three follow-ups before 3:00 p.m.

  • Call the prospect who requested a proposal.

  • Remove unnecessary sections from your proposal template.

  • Add a clear decision date to future offers.

  • Block 30 minutes every weekday for revenue-generating sales activity.

Strategic problem solving for business means moving from emotional noise to a measurable solution.

HIGH DESERVABILITY CHANGES HOW YOU SELL

High Deservability is not entitlement.

It is the willingness to act as though your offer is worth the ask before you feel completely confident.

That means:

  • Present the offer without apologizing.

  • State the investment without discounting in advance.

  • Follow up without assuming you are bothering the prospect.

  • Invite the decision without trying to control the answer.

  • Let the prospect evaluate the offer based on value and fit.

Try this self-talk rewrite:

Old thought

Higher-deservability response

“I need to prove more before I ask.”

“The prospect has enough information to make the next decision.”

“I do not want to seem pushy.”

“A clear invitation respects both of us.”

“They may say no.”

“A clear no gives me useful information.”

“My proposal must be perfect.”

“My proposal must be clear, relevant, and actionable.”

“I should wait a little longer.”

“I can create clarity with a timely follow-up.”

High Deservability supports better sales behavior. It does not guarantee every prospect will say yes. It helps you stop rejecting yourself before the prospect has a chance to decide.

THE 24-HOUR IMPERFECT-ACTION DRILL

Complete this drill within the next 24 hours.

STEP 1: FIND THE LEAK

Identify one sales action you have delayed.

Choose the follow-up, proposal, call, ask, or price conversation that is taking up mental space.

STEP 2: OBSERVE THE STORY

Write the thought that is keeping you stuck.

Then label it:

  • Fear

  • Perfectionism

  • Confusion

  • Avoidance

  • Lack of information

  • Lack of a defined next step

STEP 3: USE PrOp

Define the problem.

Name the opportunity.

Choose the solution.

STEP 4: SEND THE MESSAGE

Use fewer words than you want to use.

Make the next step clear.

STEP 5: RECORD THE RESULT

Track what happened:

  • Sent

  • Replied

  • Meeting booked

  • Question received

  • No response

  • Not a fit

  • Follow-up scheduled

Do not make the result mean something about your identity. Treat it as sales data.

FIVE SALES ACTIONS TO TAKE IMPERFECTLY THIS WEEK

Choose at least three.

This is how you stop managing chaos. You replace reactive waiting with intentional sales activity.

PARTNER WITH YOUR FUTURE SUCCESSFUL SELF

Your Future Successful Self does not wait until every message is polished.

That version of you:

  • Sends the follow-up before the opportunity goes cold.

  • Presents the proposal before it becomes overbuilt.

  • Asks for the decision before the conversation loses momentum.

  • Names the price without negotiating against personal value.

  • Uses feedback to improve the next conversation.

  • Builds a sales process that creates consistency instead of relying on urgency.

Ask:

“What would my Future Successful Self send today?”

Then send it.

BUILD MOMENTUM WITH SUPPORT

If you are tired of preparing, overthinking, and losing revenue to delayed decisions, the 90-Day Find Your Freedom® Program is designed to help you move into aligned action.

This executive and entrepreneur coaching experience combines mindset development, strategy, execution, emotional intelligence, and accountability. Use it to strengthen your sales communication, improve decision-making, and create measurable momentum.

For additional support with the “almost ready” pattern, read Stuck on Ready. Then choose one sales action and complete it before the day ends.

You do not need perfect confidence.

You need a clear next move.

Take it.

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